Signs He’s Insecure About Your Success

What is success? Well, traditionally success means that you are able to achieve your dreams and ambitions in life. You are able to reach your goals. However, as time goes by success has a different meaning for many of us. This is maybe because that people are now better thinkers and broad minded about many things in life. Actually, success is a product of dedication and sacrifices in school. Before, men are above women. Men are the boss and women are just secretaries or their assistants. However, over time women are getting equal with men in the society. More women are going out of their shells and believe that they can also do what men does which is very unnatural if you check the beliefs before that women are meant to be just at home and should take care their children.
People in the society are now applauding women who are working and at same time bring their kids in school, do the groceries, cooking, and laundry of clothes. Thus, it is just but normal that men are getting insecure of how their wives carry themselves despite many activities in a day. Women on the other hand should be sensitive about their partner’s feeling. They should not be blind and ignore the feelings of their husband or boyfriend because if this kind of problem won’t be acknowledged this will lead to break up or broken family for that matter. There are some signs that you should watch out. A man who is insecure tends to be jealous irrationally.
Do you feel that your boyfriend or husband is getting jealous whenever you are going somewhere? Well, that’s one of the facts that he is insecure. He is not confident about himself and jealous that you might be seeing someone better than him. Especially if you have a better position in a company that he has in his work, he tends to nag about everything. The way you dress and the way you put make up he can notice that one and will let you change your clothes with his approval. Sometimes there are men who tend to self pity and want to be away from you. He is being rebellious like doing things that you don’t want. Thus, this will just turn into a fight.
So, for a woman to avoid big fight you must be conscious about your partner’s feeling. Even if you earn more than him, let him feel that you love him and show him that he is still the man. Through this he will feel important and still responsible about your welfare. Another factor that will show you sign that your partner is insecure, he is getting abusive. A man who is secure about himself is not abusive. This one sign you should be careful. If your partner is hurting you, as much as possible keep all the objects that might hurt you if he is angry.
For those men who are reading this one, as much as possible fight the urge to hurt your love one because you can’t have her back once she lives you. Love brings too much pain and that pain creates wound that is too painful, thus, needs more time to heal and be able to love to forgive and love again. On the other hand, for women who are reading this article, try to be more sensitive. Don’t let him feel that you are much better than him. Don’t make him feel that he is useless and you can now live alone without him. Love is a wonderful feeling and should be nurtured by two people loving each other.